Thursday, August 19, 2010

Why did she continue to persist after I told her I was not interested?

This girl I know keeps persisting to try to get my attention. At first, I told her in person and in a xanga post that she read that I was not looking for anyone. After this, she kept flirting and getting me alone. She kept flirting more and more, and I guess I started to notice and make come backs, but I backed off because I reminded myself that it is not the best time for a relationship. She sent her sister to ask if I was mad at her. Now, we are getting close again. Everytime I see her she touches me and finds ways to get alone with me. Does she not take a hint? Or is she REALLY interested in me?

Why did she continue to persist after I told her I was not interested?
I think the fact that you responded and made comebacks allowed her to still live on the hope that perhaps you might be interested in her too. Do you have any feelings towards her too? You say that its not the best time for a relationship, but it doesn't mean you're not interested in her too. If you're definetly not interested in her or have any feelings towards her at all, I think you should avoid being alone with her and calmly tell her that you're not interested in HER. But if you do feel something towards her, maybe you should rethink your unreadiness for a relationship. Good luck!
Reply:she's obsessed with u.
Reply:It sounds as if she is really interested in you. You must be giving her mixed signals or she would have stopped by now.


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