What do you do when you like a girl, but she has a boyfriend, and she says she still likes you?

So there's this girl i like "Kelly" and i went out with her for about a month or so (i know that doesnt sound like alot, but we got really close). We got together like a week before winter break and i had to go on a trip (to Taiwan) during that time for about a week. I checked my xanga while i was there and she kept saying how much she missed me and loved me and wished i was home. When I finally got home from the trip, she seemed ecstaic to hear from me and was telling me how good she felt now that i was home. The relationship went well for about a month and then she all of a sudden decided to stop talking to me the day before our one month. I started panicking and eventually called one of her friends she tells me that kelly doesnt wanna be with me anymore b/c she "wasnt ready for a relationship". I find out 10 days later that she's with a new guy "Jeff". shes not sure if she truely loves him and still calls sometimes, but wont answer mine... she still tells me that she loves me....

What do you do when you like a girl, but she has a boyfriend, and she says she still likes you?
Two words dude. Move on. I know it feels like she's the best girl you'll ever meet. but she's not. not even close. Find a new chick. or maybe two new chicks. Make sure Kelly know's about them. You'll be suprised how she'll make an about face and suddenly become interested. and what will u do? you'll blow her off. tell her YOUR not ready for a relationship and don't give her a second thought.
Reply:******* forger her! i know it's probably hard but she is causing u way to much pain! She isn't as mature as u are obviusly so u deserve some chick who is as mature. She probably doesn't even relize she hurt u. Plus what an imarute way to dump someone! Tell her to grow up!


good luck witt it tho!!!!!!!!!1
Reply:if she truly loves u she would leave jeff for you. If not then she is taking u for a fool and u are falling for it. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Tell her she's got a funny way of showing her true love for u.
Reply:tell this chick to stop playing games, let this jeff guy know that she's telling you that she still loves you ,or why not just screw her then leave hahaha play the field she's one in a billion
Reply:Let her go, she is only holding on to you incase this doesn't work out with her new guy.
Reply:This is important and it may be sad but you already know the answer my friend. Lets start with the fact that she doesn't know what she wants. This is not a good sign and I think you can do the math on that one. Aside from that she is in a relationship from which you understood she wasn't ready for. Lets get to the point here, you will come across "some" women who dint know what they want. And you will sometimes have a good connection with you. BUT it's your responsibility to warrant who has access to your very powerfull feelings, who you share them with etc. In closing if she really liked you that much she would NOT hesitate to be with you and would go far out her way to show it, and in my opinion hook-up with you not the new guy "Jeff". Trust me you will save years of heart ache and your valuable time this way. Take care my friend, laters
Reply:it is OK just go with her and if she say she love u then she really loves you!