My ex- best friend is out to ruin my life! what should i do?

Ok, well me and this girl have been friends since kindergarten. In 3rd grade olivia and I weren't in the same class, but this girl magen was in her class. They became best friends, and i already hated magen's guts. In 4th grade we all ended up in the same class. We all became friends, and everything was fine, right? well in the 5th grade magen and I started Instant Messaging on the computer (olivia didn't instant message). Everything went downhill will me and her. We were calling eachother names and i tried to avoid her as much as i could and keep olivia out of our fued. During the end of the school year she would post blogs all about me on her xanga site and get her cousins to harrass me. and one day i was so mad that i slipped out something bad about my best friend olivia. I think magen may have printed it out and showed it to her because that was her big threat towards me. I called olivia one day and told her how i felt about her hanging out with magen and how i was shoved aside wit

My ex- best friend is out to ruin my life! what should i do?
Sweetie, instead of taking out all your frustration on this Answer site, secretly hoping that both Megan and Olivia will read it, find a way to tell at least Olivia what you want her to know... but privately. It sounds like way too many people have already gotten involved. Start with one person at a time, and although it will be hard, don't give in to the temptation to badmouth anyone else! Just tell Olivia how you feel about her as a friend, without bringing Megan into it. Small steps, okay? Good luck.
Reply:this happened 2me b 4.u just need treat her like a friend but not llike best frienda talk wit her a litle bit.or just tell her wat happened and if she dont listen dont take no 4 an answer or slip a note some where she and see it.say ur srry and .if she new u and this gurl had issuse y would she believe her friend over her bes friend.if she is willin 2 end a friendship over a stupid fight that went a LITTle 2 far then she isnt a good frien cause if she was u she would feel the same way.she need 2 take some 1 elses feels b 4 hers sometimes.some times u need to sacrifice ur own feelins 2 save a good relationship.
Reply:Y'all can't be mad at each other every time y'all have different class or doing something with the other
Reply:I'm going through a really similar situation also. My ex best friend has been bad mouthing me, calling me swares like f***** whore etc. Just hold your head up high and try to explain to Olivia that you meant nothing bad. I feel for you and hope you and Olivia are friends again! : ^)
Reply:Wow!!!! talk about drama. they sound like little witches. I had a best friend from kindergarten right up through high school...and now we don't even talk..none of it mattered in the long run. i know that doesn't help you now..but if she was really your friend, she wouldn't have believed the other girl. you are better off without them in your life
Reply:girl all I can tell you is that you need to make sure that you know what u r doing if ur friend is out to ruin ur life u r not going to let her ruin urs right? cuz you have a future to hold so what is the problem?


do you want to turn out someone that ur not if you want her back u need to first be calm and think about the consequences that you must take and think of it as whose fault it is okay. Think before you act.
Reply:If Megan wants to fight then I would fight back remember treat others the way you want to be treated so if she wants to treat you that way treat her the same way back!!!!!!!
Reply:Wow that is a bunch of drama!! i think you should just try to talk to olivia and stop the immature talking about people, no offense I am 25 now and have learned that you really find out who your true friends are and it usually doesn't come otu to be but a few people who you went to school with. You are young and i know how it was but try and talk to her in mature manner. Just try to be a good friend and don't talk about anybody behind their back cause that is not being a "true friend."